Sexual Topping: Breaking Free of Gender Roles

Sexual expression is a deeply personal experience, and everyone has their own preferences and desires.

Sexual expression is a deeply personal experience, and everyone has their own preferences and desires. However, societal expectations and traditional gender roles have often dictated what is considered “normal” or “acceptable” in sexual encounters. One of these expectations is that men should be dominant and women should be submissive in sexual relationships. However, more and more women are breaking free of these stereotypes and embracing sexual topping.

What is sexual topping, you ask? It’s when a woman takes on a dominant role in sexual activities. This can range from initiating sexual acts to directing the flow of the experience. It can also involve physical actions such as being on top during intercourse or using sex toys. Basically, it’s when a woman takes charge in the bedroom.

Sexual topping is a way for women to explore their sexuality and assert their desires. Women have been socialized to be passive and accommodating in sexual encounters, often putting their partner’s pleasure ahead of their own. Sexual topping allows women to prioritize their own pleasure and take control of their own sexual experience.

But why is this important? Sexual empowerment is crucial for women’s well-being. When women are able to fully embrace and explore their sexuality, it can lead to increased confidence, self-esteem, and a sense of agency. Sexual topping can be a way for women to challenge traditional gender roles and expectations, and create a more equal and fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.

Of course, sexual dynamics are personal and should always be consensual and respectful for all parties involved. It’s important to communicate with your partner and make sure that you’re both comfortable and enthusiastic about the sexual activities you’re engaging in. Consent is key, and it should always be clear and enthusiastic.

For some women, sexual topping may not come naturally. They may feel uncomfortable or unsure of how to take charge in the bedroom. But there are plenty of resources available to help women explore and embrace their dominant side. Books, podcasts, and online forums can offer tips and advice on how to become more assertive and confident in sexual situations.

It’s also important to remember that sexual topping is not just about physical actions. It’s also about mindset and attitude. Women who embrace sexual topping are often confident, assertive, and unapologetic about their desires. It’s about owning your sexuality and taking charge of your pleasure.

Unfortunately, there are still some societal stigmas around sexual topping by women. Some people may view it as “unfeminine” or “unnatural.” But these attitudes are outdated and harmful. Women should be able to express their sexuality in any way they choose, without fear of judgment or shame.

Sexual topping is just one way that women are challenging gender roles and expectations in the bedroom. But it’s an important step towards creating a more equal and fulfilling sexual experience for all. It’s time to break free of outdated stereotypes and embrace our sexuality in all its forms. So go ahead, take charge, and enjoy the ride.

Originally published at https://loveherlead.com on March 10, 2023.